Giving flowers is a beautiful tradition that has not lost its relevance for centuries. But behind the outward simplicity of the gesture are hidden rules that can change the impression of a gift. In different cultures and situations, compositions have their own symbolic meaning, so floristic etiquette is not just good manners, but the art of showing attention, respect and a subtle understanding of the context.
In this article, we will consider the basic rules for giving flowers: when, to whom, which ones and how exactly to give so that your bouquet makes the desired impression.
1. Choosing flowers - every detail matters
Flowers are a language. And each element of the composition can "say" something.
- Roses are a classic of romance. Red ones symbolize love, white ones - purity, pink ones - tenderness, yellow ones - friendship or apology.
- Tulips are a universal option, especially in spring. They can mean sympathy, inspiration or joy.
- Lilies - sophistication and elegance. Often given for festive events.
- Chrysanthemums are a sign of respect, gratitude, and endurance.
- Peonies are symbols of abundance, feminine beauty, and romance.
It is important to consider the recipient's age, gender, and status, as well as the occasion. For example, a bouquet of red roses may not be appropriate for a colleague or teacher.
2. Number of flowers in a bouquet
In Ukraine, as in many other countries, there is a tradition of giving an odd number of flowers in holiday arrangements.
- 1 flower is an elegant, intimate gesture.
- 3–5 is the standard for romantic dates.
- 7 is for important events: anniversaries, birthdays.
- 9 or more are for special occasions: weddings, anniversaries, corporate parties.
When it comes to large, original compositions where it is difficult to count the number of flowers (mixed varieties, greenery, decorative elements), the rule does not apply clearly - the main thing here is the overall impression.
3. Who and on what occasion do they give flowers?
For women:
- For young girls - light, delicate flowers (wildflowers, tulips, daisies, ranunculus).
- For colleagues - restrained bouquets (gerberas, chrysanthemums, alstroemerias).
- For lovers - luxurious compositions of roses, peonies, orchids.
- For mothers - warm shades, classic shapes (lilies, carnations, tulips).
For men:
- For a business meeting or anniversary - restrained compositions in dark or rich colors (irises, gladioli, exotic flowers).
- For creative people - asymmetrical, creative bouquets with texture.
For children:
- Small, bright bouquets, sometimes with toys or sweets.
For a wedding:
- Give light, pastel or delicate bouquets - in white, pink, powdery colors. Do not overshadow the bride's bouquet.
4. How to properly present a bouquet
There are several basic rules of etiquette that should be followed:
- Flowers are presented with the cut side down - this is a sign of respect.
- The bouquet is presented with the right hand, sometimes with a slight tilt forward - as a gesture of a gift.
- You should not present flowers in protective film or cellophane - it is better to remove it before giving. Leave the original packaging.
5. Giving flowers in different situations
Romantic date:
- Give flowers at the beginning of the meeting. This creates a pleasant mood.
- Avoid large, voluminous bouquets - they are difficult to carry.
For a birthday:
- Give bright, cheerful compositions. It is worth adding a card or wish.
For corporate parties or official events:
- It is better to avoid fragrant flowers - not everyone tolerates smells well.
- The bouquet should be elegant and restrained, without romantic overtones.
After a performance, exhibition, presentation:
- They give compositions as a thank you for their creativity. Preferably - immediately after the event ends.
6. Packaging and accessories
The bouquet design should be stylish, but not overloaded. Natural materials, kraft paper, fabric, discreet ribbons are in fashion. Avoid plastic wrap, unless it is for transport packaging.
If you want to surprise - contact our florists for an original composition.
7. Is it appropriate to give flowers to men?
Yes, but carefully. It is important to adhere to a restrained style:
- The composition is vertical, concise.
- Dark or deep colors.
- Minimum decorations.
It is best to choose exotic or graphic flowers: anthurium, protea, stellate, eustoma, with minimalist greenery.
Floristic etiquette is a delicate combination of knowledge, taste and respect for the person. The choice of flowers, the way they are presented, their suitability for the occasion - all this affects how your gift will be perceived. Remember: flowers are a language that speaks emotions. And if you correctly "compose phrases" from buds, stems and colors, you always get straight to the heart.
Tip: if in doubt - contact our professional florists. They will help you choose a bouquet that will say everything that is most important for you.
